F is for Finding Our Way.

If you have kept up with Jeremiah’s and my journey thus far, you know that we had been experimenting with D/s, spanking, and new techniques in the bedroom.  Last month, Jeremiah called a halt to all non-vanilla activities.  I was very disappointed.

Then, today, out of the blue, Jeremiah pulled the Dom/Hoh card out of his back pocket for a moment:

I had stayed up extremely late last night reading on my phone.  (For me, reading into the wee hours is a lifelong indulgence–or bad habit, depending on how you look at it! I love that peaceful time when no one is stirring, and I can read totally undisturbed.  Anyway, back to our story.)

This morning, I was dragging.  Everyone else was out of bed before I deigned to open my eyes.  Once I joined the land of the living, getting around and getting some caffeine, Jeremiah asked why I had stayed up so late last night.  Before I could answer, he said, “Reading on your phone?”  I nodded.

“I think your phone needs to stay out here when we go to bed.  You get after the kids about too much screen time, and then you go and do it.”

Immediately I knew I wanted to honor his request and encourage this dominant behavior.  I said, “I think you’re right.  I’m sorry I was reading so much last night.”

“I’m not worried about your reading, but I’m concerned for you because of the lack of sleep.”

I grinned and hugged him.  “Thank you for being concerned about me and helping me set limits to keep me safe.  I won’t do it again.”

Jeremiah kept his Dom card handy for our roll in the hay a few hours later (which included an appearance by Rosy!).  All of it was lovely.  I thoroughly enjoyed the love making, and I truly do intend to charge my phone in the kitchen overnight from now on.  It won’t be easy.  I swear my phone is super glued to my hand most of the time.  I’m addicted.  Going to sleep without reading at all on my phone won’t be ideal, but it’s a worthwhile exchange for more confidence and dominance from my man.

I had given up on having anything but vanilla in our little world.  Maybe there is a glimmer of hope for a life of chocolate swirl!


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