H is for Having a Safeword.

We have a safeword–it’s his name. If I say his name, everything stops until we have discussed and fixed the issue.

Of course, all of that had been merely theory until a few weeks ago.

While we were enjoying some “cuddle time” (as we call it when we’re talking to our kids :)), J tried something relatively new. All of a sudden, I was hurting–and not in a good way. I needed him to stop RIGHT NOW!

In the heat of the moment, I just reacted. I didn’t use the safeword. It completely left my brain. Thankfully, J stopped and checked with me based on my reaction.

It kind of worries me that I may not be able to safeword appropriately when needed. What do you think? Do you use a safeword? If so, how did you get comfortable using it? How do I get practice in the fine art of using a safeword?

(For those of you keeping score, I did skip “G”.  I’m trying to get permission to reblog a terrific post on good girl spankings, but I haven’t yet heard back from the blog author.  I hope to share that awesome primer with you soon.)

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